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writes:I turn 32 years old in a month and I've had three relationships, lasting from 2 weeks to 3 months and two one-night stands. The last was 6 months ago after a 5 year dry spell. Is this a sign of serious trouble? I definitely feel unsatisfied with my love life and most women don't seem interested in me even though there's nothing I know of that's wrong with me. So what should I do to get a love life that is satisfying to me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 As cerberus said... get out there and actively meet new women. Can't expect women to knock on your door while you're watching TV.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): Just go out and get it, simple as that. There's nothing wrong with you other than the fact you're not out there actively pursuing women.
Dude for us guys a dry spell is self imposed, always is. Just go out, chat girls up and ask them out. You don't see the girls that are interested in you because you're not out there talking to them or making them interested. If you're not Brad Pitt then they're not going to do it for you. It will take time, effort, good grooming, confidence, self belief and never say die attitude. Get all those things if you don't have them and then just go out and get girls too. There's no magic mystery to it. You just go for it, practice makes perfect after all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): Hey pal!
Sounds like you need to figure out what your relationship goals are. You want marriage? A long term without marriage? Then, find the lady. Network, talk to people about who youre looking for both personality wise and physically. Online can be effective as Ive known people who have stayed together by doing that. You need to make it an objective rather than a sexual pleasure to find a true woman. Stop these one night stands, they have obviously hurt ur confidence and youll need that if you want a good relationship. Ive met women at my gym, bookstores, heck even ran into a brod out of nowhere at an airport lol. Try and I mean TRY to stay away from clubs and bars. Nothin' but diseased poon and whores there. Youd be damn lucky to find a good one. Jazz clubs, comedy clubs, all that is good. Even the movie theater maybe. Take initiative to meet some ladies, they dun fall on ur lap and by goin out, you'll do just that. Hopefully Ive given some help. good luck.
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