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How do I get a relationship to last a long time?

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Question - (1 December 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male Sweden age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been dating another boy for about 3 months now. We've seen each other 5 times during that time. So my Question is how can I get my relationship to last for a long time between my gay boyfriend and me?

So I really like being with him, we're both 16 and go to different schools. Normally I get to see him every other week. Our dates normally involve going to the movies or I hang out at his house. Next date we'll go to the movies and he'll finally come to see my house. I'm his first boyfriend/kiss/date and vice versa. We've already gone to have sex, and to be honest it was awkward, but it felt like we connected a lot more.

Anyways I'd love to see him every weekend, but it's difficult, it takes 2 buses to get to his house (45 min journey in total) but I can kind of tell that he doesn't really want to see me every weekend, I think he prefers every other weekend (which is a bit too long for me)

Also he's had a complicated past which I know little about:

He's Depressed, He lost his best friend, His 24 y old brother died (I think it involves drug dealers) his dad's a homophobe, he's doing bad in school and he only stays friends with people for 6 months at school. The 6 month thing worried me a bit, I don't want to be with him for 6 months only, I really want to be with him for quite a bit longer than that.

We don't have a lot in common, but neither do I with my best friends and they've been super close with me for 6 years. We both like the same kind of music, video games and it's easy for me to talk with him. I think he's loosened up with me because I'm kind of depressed at the moment too (it's possible I might have huntington's) so maybe he can empathize with me.

But yeah, sorry to bore you with my long question :)

So what can i do to keep this relationship going for a couple of years or so?

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