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writes: I just met a guy and we are getting along amazingly well. We jumped into the physical side of things pretty quickly which is unusual for both of us, but we are both very excited about getting to know each other better. I'm looking for a serious relationship, but he says he just got out of a relationship and is looking to keep things cool for a while. He also said he doesn't want to pursue a relationship because it's not the right time for him, and he would be too afraid to lose me as a friend. That said, the physical attraction is still hot and heavy. I really want to pursue a relationship with me, and I'm willing to do so slowly at his own pace, I just want a chance. What do I do to get a fair chance with him? Reply to this Question
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reader, Toria +, writes (23 September 2006):
 This might be his way of gently saying he just wants to sleep with you and not make anything serious of this at all but he really might just need the time to build this into something more and if you want to be with him then I would take things at his pace, your not losing anything by doing this only getting hurt if it doesn't work into something more but I think you should at least try if it doesn't work out then you live and learn but if you don't try you may regret it.
Good luck :o)
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reader, shania  +, writes (23 September 2006):
 To ask for a serious relationship would be a bit too quick as you have only started dating him,it only scares guys off,saying that he seems happy to have sex with you but nothing else,does he want to get to know you?...or just use you as a sex buddy?..You will have to ask yourself this, if you want a relationship with any fella then jumping into bed with him so quickly wouldn't be a good idea because once you have started having sexual relations,what is there left at the end of it? Getting to know a man 1st and building up a good attachment with him then yes,sex should happen easily and both of you know where you stand,at the moment this guy doesn't want a serious relationship just sex...if your happy with that then fine if not then you know what to do..good luck.
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