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writes:I was her freaking rebound. I let her turn me into a whipped puppy. I am a freaking adult. I have never been in this situation. She has two wonderful daughters and a loving family. She welcomed me into their lives and we had a great time. Then as time went on things changed. She stopped calling so much. She would go out and not say anything to me about it. Then the last two weeks we were together she seemed to be cheating on me and was treating me like she wanted me to break up with her. She broke up with me 3 days after Valentines Day after I gave her and her family a bunch of stuff. Now the only feelings I have are being pissed off about being blind and letting her do that to me. Everything I did for her and her family and she just used me to piss off her now ex husband and to feel better about herself. Then when she felt better instead of doing the respectful thing and saying I'm sorry but its not working she trys to get me to break up with her so she can go crying to her friends for sympathy. I have cut all ties with her and now I have a big empty hole in my heart that was her and her family and her kids. Now what do I do to get over her. It was only 4 1/2 months but her family including her mother treated me like I was one of their own. They even threw me a small birthday party that her 4 yr old daughter planned!!! The man is supposed to be strong and get on with life and not be emotional but this just pisses me off. Any advice on how to get on with life?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo top it all off my mother was in the ICU during christmas so we gave her our gifts but mom never gave her hers. With mom better and back home I've now had sarahs gifts in the back of my jeep for ever a month now. Even though my mother is adamant about giving me them to her I'd rather not.
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reader, blondie111  +, writes (28 March 2011):
take each day as it comes. just try to rember every morning when u get up what she has done to you. and imagine her doing it to some other mug now and have comfort in knowing your well rid. in same boat myself only slightly more complicated
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2011): The only thing i can say is time which is rubbish i know. Love to hate her. Remeneber when you get up in the morning just what she has done to you and imagine her doing it to he next guy. Take each day as it comes and time will pass. Im in the same boat at the minute but the other way around....mines a right tale in tears as i type
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