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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, Ok, well I,ve been with my bf for 2 years and 6 months.. Everything was going great, until about 4 months ago.. Everything went down the drain when he moved out of his parents house and moved in with my grandmother. His parents did some stuff and basicly made him suffer.. He quit school and started looking for a job. Well apparently I have an atittude problem. We would have arguements about it and I would always tell him that I would try to change it but it never work. So one day I go to see him and he just starts telling me hes going to move out and he dosen't know if we will last much longer. He starts packing and I start begging. I even locked him in the bathroom which was a bad idea but anyways. He wouldn't talk to me or say anything he just packed. I told him we could do a break but I couldn't loose him. I have given him everything I have to give. So we went on a break for 4 days but, the night he left he texted and was saying he was sorry, and that he needed me, he didn't want to loose me and blah blah. The next night he tells me he dosen't know how to talk to me anymore or how he feels about me. Its like he did a 180 or something.. He even asked me if my best friend was trying to hook me up but, what gets me is the next night he went to go see a girl that one of his friends hooked him up with. He told me himself but he left bc he said that I was the one for him.. Our break is over now, its been over for a week now. But I don't know whats going on now. Just yesterday we went for a ride and we started talking about us. He says he dosen't feel the same about me like he use to but he still loves me with everything that he has.. I love him too more than he will ever know. He told me he dosen't have the time to make a relationship work right now bc he has so much on him right now. He just wants me to be by his side. Yes i have done some stupid things to him in the past like: I got a friend to write a letter and put it on his truck, I've even called him a cheater, and I've even borke up with him bc I listened to everyone else but not my heart. We've been threw alot of crap togetther but in the end we have eachother but right now I feel like I've lost him somewhere along the road. I just need some advice on what to do. I don't want to loose him, he means everything to me. So please help me!!
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