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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello CupidMy bf and me were together for past 1 year, started as best friends and then went into a relationship. Our relationship was going on fine till saturday. He used to call me or ill call him in a daily basis and we chat for an hour or so. On sunday he called me, since i was too tried i slept and didnt see his call, anyway i called him back after an hour and we chatted and suddenly he started talking very mean to me, i was shocked since he never do that. I asked him whats going on and said he met a girl and she was too voluptuous and have good boobs, his friends were with her few times before and he know from them her preformance is great in bed it seems and wanted to be with her, so he wanted to break up with me and said he moved on and if i want i can be the other women or else we can just be friends. I was too stunned to say anything. Then he disconnected the call and switched off his mobile. I dont really understand what is happening, since he was talking too nicely one minute and the next minute he broke up with me. The next day (monday) i tried to reach him, he never attended the call, send him messages, replied like he is not angry with me. Tried to talk to him through chat, whenever i ask something about this, he replies back that he is busy and logs off from chat. I tried to call him , he never attends the call, sent a couple of mails, but never replied back. From Tuesday till this day, i have not tried to contact him, no msgs, no emails, no phone calls and no chats and he didnt try to reach me too. I really wanted to know what happened, can i call him and ask for the reason. I just dont want to sound like i am begging him to come back. If i call him, i believe he wont attend the call. Will he call me after sometime. Someone please help me, i really wanted to understand the situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): Hello,
Don't waste anymore time on him. He admitted he's met any woman. Now you don't hear from him. In my opinion its done.
I personally wouldn't contact him. Why would u want to be second choice?
You deserve a man who's faithful and loves you. Take sometime off for you and you'll eventually find him.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): If he told you hes met another woman and wants to be with her but you can be the other woman. Then hes saying he doesnt want an exclusive relationship with you. He wants to be with other women as well as you.
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reader, natmarie  +, writes (12 May 2010):
 It sounds like he may have broken up with you. You are doing VERY WELL ot have stayed away and not asked him. Well done. You obviously have a very strong charahcter. However, he has disrespected you by not giving you an answer. You could email him saying that he obvioulsy does not have the decency to tell you why he broke up with you, but good luck with his future, al the best etc etc. if you are really gracious, this wil make him feel bad and look like the little boy he is acting like.
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