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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2015): Honestly, I do think you need to trust or leave. Why?
• if you find something, are you going to leave? Or stay and work through it? Or stay and not be able to get over it?
• if you don't find something, are you going to hide that you've snooped and live a lie? Or tell him and he's able to forgive you, but probably not trust you again? Or own up and him not be able to forgive/trust you, causing you to get divorced?
If you can't trust him enough not to feel the need to snoop, what's your marriage based on?
If you *really* want to snoop, you're either paranoid and controlling, or you have a valid reason and don't trust him.
This desire to snoop isn't healthy.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 July 2015):
 I believe you can google his e-mail address and see what pops up.
He might not use his work one, but if you know his personal one it might help.
You ask about HIS profiles, so you KNOW he is on dating or other websites?
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reader, Garbo +, writes (22 July 2015):
 You could monitor websites that are visited through your homes wifi by signing up here and setting up your IP address: https://www.opendns.com. This is free.
You can use Spokeo.com to check social media conveniently via emails, phone numbers, profiles etc. they charge a fee.
There are other spyware programs that you need to load into his phone or a computer that will give you logs... Some even record messenger app convos. I don't know the names of top of my head but with little research you can find out. One other way is to go on reddit.com and ask folks who do.
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reader, jenson86  +, writes (22 July 2015):
You can look at the history on the computer/device which could have been cleared but my concern here is why are you wanting to do this? do you suspect something? do you not trust your husband? You obviously don't if you want to go behind his back and look at what he has been doing. why don't you just talk to him or ask him? Also if you do not trust him, something needs sorting as you cannot have a successful marriage without trust.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2015): I agree that people who go on about snooping have simply
Been subjected to compulsive lying in a relationship that is importbat to them and the lies need to be exposed. If ones husband is lying and you have six kids and a martiage you want to save for example . It's simpky not good enough for people to say trust or leave
I would have a professional in or ask advice of an IT expert.
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reader, mrspiggy +, writes (22 July 2015):
 You. Don't. You either talk to him about your fears or you trust him.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (22 July 2015):
 google 'reverse email search' to find a site that will do this search for you. bear in mind - if he has created email addresses that you do not know about then this will be of no use to you. do yo have reason to not trust him or are you just being curious?
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reader, dougbcoll +, writes (22 July 2015):
 must be trust issues between you and your husband? go to the computer look for history if the web browser has it on it would be the easiest way to search, but he could clear it every time before he gets off the web sites.
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