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writes:Hi everyone I'm need some advice I'm trying to date this lady friend of mine she's the parent of this young lady I train Well we kinda got a little close recently I've think she great her daughter are good friends with my daughter I'm divorce by the way and she's a single mother well I've told her I think she's very beautiful and that I would like to date her at first she said sure but with the girls well we went out had a great time then I asked her if me and her can go out alone she said yes then she had a change of heart she said that it wasn't a good idea that she didn't want to date her daughter's coach so I said okay cool can we be friends she said sure but recently we hung out at an event and she got a little close to me as in hugging me playing with me and just having fun and I asked her one more time if she would date me this time she said yes well that same night we took our kids home and I hung out with her for just a minute alone and we hugged but it wasn't just a hug we didn't let go of each other for a good minute and I kissed her on her neck and she didn't say nothing I normally kiss on the cheek don't know why I kissed Her neck but it was so great and she didn't stop me so I figured we're cool so now I'm not sure what to do because I don't want to ruin that little moment at the same time she's always telling me that its not good for me to have a crush on her but I always tell her I can't avoid it that I think she's gorgeous and she just laughs I think she likes it but at the same time I'm not sure what to do what do you guys recommend. I get mix emotions from her like she's not sure we should date or go out but then now she says yes but at the same time she's a little distance for me it's weird need help
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (23 July 2015):
 kissing a woman on her neck is a rather intimate thing to do, so it seems very wrong to do that to a lady who you are just friends with. i think she did not stop you because she was surprised by it and probably felt very awkward. she may have been hurt by a past partner and not want to get involved with anyone new at the moment, or maybe she is just not into you that way. i would say - remain friends with her, no more lunges for her neck and see how things pan out. take a step back, don't keep asking her out, just be a friend and if she feels able to give you more allow her to get closer to you if she wants to
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