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writes:Ok now I like this guy he is 16 he will be 17 this month and iam 14 and I don't know what to do I want to date him and I think he likes me to but how do I find it out what could I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): hii...
there are times when you just have to put on your big girl panties (sorry, i couldn't resist saying that...hahaa) and step up to the plate. for you, now is one of those times. i've been in this situation quite a few times myself, and i know that it is most definitely not easy. but you won't ever know unless you try. it's usually better to do things face-to-face, but if you don't feel like you can do that, calling or texting him is always an option. just be really casual about it--don't make it seem like your world and your happiness depend on his answer. try saying something like, "heyy, i think you're really great, and i was just wondering how you feel about me." or, "would liking you be a waste of my time?" personally, i prefer the second one, because it really conveys that you're not desperate and are a strong, independent woman who has better things to do than sit around pining over a man. but really, your decision is your own. although i do highly encourage you to avoid involving any go-betweens. dragging other people into the mix can seem like a really easy way of handling things, but in the end, it can also make things a whole lot more complicated. soo, just be yourself, be confident, and trust in God to guide you and do what's right for both you and the guy.
good luck, and God bless,
~sarsar~
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