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writes:Well I'm 16 years old and I'm sick of masturbating!!!! It's boring and my girlfriend is not ready for sex yet so I have no choice but masturbation. I really wanna know how do I enjoy myself more? I want to feel better on masturbating, I tried watching porn and I got used to it and I'm not allowed to use sex toys. What should I do now?
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reader, gleep  +, writes (26 February 2009):
All men go through this though most never remember nor realise what is happening. Every time you start dating and your sexualy attracted this will happen.
When your dating, the desire to masturbate is put on the back burn for a short while. Basically your body does not want you to masturbate because you need all your seamen for making babies. You may not want babies, and at your age you definitely should not be aiming for them, but your body does not care what you want. All animals have the same primary purpose and that is to survive, next to that though is the over whelming need to reproduce. Simply put "life will find a way" and its completely out of your control, its hard wired into your body.
Don't sweat it, the boredom will pass when your body realizes that it is not going to get what it wants. And please don't pressure your GF into having sex with you, give her time, and if it never happens with her, then hey, there is more than one girl out there (your time will come)
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reader, Hasden +, writes (25 February 2009):
Hasden is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you all for advicng !!!
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reader, mario4hustle  +, writes (22 February 2009):
i personally think you are too young to be going apes over masturbating. theres more to live dude.
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reader, intothewoods  +, writes (17 February 2009):
I agree with the last post, you should go as long as you can without it so that when you do the sensation will be a lot more intense. And try doing it in different places (obviously be careful) or positions. Porn doesnt seem to work for me, but i often need to think about something i find a turn on before i start. More importantly, if your girlfriend is not ready for pentatrative sex doesnt mean you can't have fun together? Just kissing and groping or going to second base can be enough. why not masterbate eachother? or try oral? I had a boyfriend when i was 16 and we waited 6 months before I had sex for the 1st time. but we had tried everything else before hand. it will enhance your relationship to become more intimate physically, just remember to be respectful and gentle with her. you'll have plenty more to wank about too :)
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reader, Tewebag +, writes (15 February 2009):
Different times of the day, different fantasies or trying going a few days without doing it. Try using some lubes to change up the feeling.
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reader, CarrieBradshaw  +, writes (14 February 2009):
 First of all if done properly masturbating is not boring. It is important to know that it does require some imagination and the right technique. Try adding some variety as sometimes masturbating at the same time in the same place with the same fantasy can get monotonous. Also perhaps you are masturbating on a too regular basis, if you go a couple of days without it your sex drive increases and your orgasms intensify. Sex toys are not essential in masturbating but I don't think you should be disallowed them.
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