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writes:When I have sex I get really wet my ex who was my high school sweetheart used to tease me and say it was like dipping his penis in a bucket of water. We got used to it and would put a towel down to Eli mate clean up. Towards the end of our relationship I started "squirting" he liked at and it didn't bother him. I can control it but sometimes I need to do it, if I don't it feels like a pressure build up and I'm going to explode. When it happens it is a mess ! No that I'm not with my ex I'm worried how other guys will react. Do I tell them before hand ? Is there a way to by let my body get so wet down there. I've never dated anyone else and I'm scared that when I get so wet they will be turned off.
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reader, Garbo  +, writes (7 January 2017):
 From the guy's point of view, it all depends what that wetness is. Consider me: I know of "squirting" but I still have no clue whether it's true, how true and if true what that fluid is: pee or not pee, and if not pee then what?
I'm sure most men have seen squirting in porn as it's heavily promoted, butjust because I've seen it it does not mean I know what it is.
So from my questions, you can get a sense what most guys know about the squiring liquid (which is not much) and what issues you need to be prepared to explain.
And this brings us to whether to tell or not. Sure, do tell, but be tactful about it, meaning it shouldn't be a talking point to get a date, but rather sometimes deeper into dating when things start getting intimate, and you feel comfortable with him. Explaining some of the things ahead of the event would help, help him understand what is the liquid he is "dipping" in, and what are some possible things that can happen in the bedroom as in a need for towels, etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2017): Getting wet is actually really good. Sex is uncomfortable without it and can lead to horrible things like cystitis. It also usually means you are turned on and thus should really be a compliment to any boy your trust to sleep with (safe sex!). My boyfriend loves it when I am wet. It seems to further turn him on. I really wouldn't worry about warning any sex partners but I hope really that you trust anyone you are sleeping with enough not to have to worry about what he thinks about that! A decent guy would have no issues with anything like that.
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