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writes:my guy friend keeps playing games with me. sometimes he acts like he really likes me and wants to be with me, and other times he just ignores me. my friends and i think he just wants me to make the move first, but now i'm just getting frustrated because i believe if you really like someone, you just tell them and you don't fool around with their feelings. how can i deal with this situation? i've tried to tell him before that i'm onto his games and i hate them, but he keeps denying what he's doing. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2011): I think he is a little immature. When you even tell him that you are not into his games, you are still playing the game. What I mean by that is, by saying that he knows that you are feeling some type of way. That is npt going to male him stop. What you should do is play the game back. As a woman you have a lot of power, do not let some guuy screw with your head. Try to ignore him, keep yourself busy, and looking good ;) Eventually, you will have the control and you will be able to be more clear about what you want and what he needs to do.
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reader, Drew21 +, writes (24 March 2011):
 I would say take your own advice to heart...Confront him straight up and say "what is going on here? are you interested in me or not?"
He may have his reasons for why he's playing games (for instance, i had a girl obviously interested in me who was the sister of one of my good friends. I was interested in her, but was worried about breaking the "bros before hos" mantra. I know this drove her crazy.)
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