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writes:Well , first of all , i dont know why or how this happened because i dont really know this person , ok, so there's this geography teacher and when i first moved to this school. i got her for geography , but i can hardly remember anything from that year as it was almost 3 years ago now , and i'm going into the next year when my summer holiday finishes.I have been having very sexually graphic dreams about this teacher.I'm openly a lesbian , but i like one of my classmates she's bi , and having that dream , made think i had feeling for the teacher and im not sure that i want to because she's probably about 18 years older than me , well she looks quite young and pretty , and it would be illegal anyway if i tried And then my mom would find out im a lesbian , and im totally not ready for that.The other dreams that happen to have her in are just like us two in a relationship and its kinda freaking me out a littleI feel like im falling in love with her , i dont know what to do because i miss her , even though i don't really know her as a person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for the advice , i will try and get her off my mind and i'll find something that will keep me from thinking about her , i appreciate your answer :)
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (17 August 2012):
 As you already know nothing can happen between you and the teacher because it is illegal and she would lose her job, then go to prison.
This is not love, because you cannot love someone you dont know. To be truly in love with someone you need to know someone inside out, to love their good and bad bits - and you have admitted that you dont really know this teacher as a person therefore this cannot be love. This is a crush, you are attracted to her and that's it.
There is nothing you can do really, its not a bad thing to be attracted to her as long as you dont act on it. Allow yourself to have this crush but keep reminding yourself that this is just a crush and nothing can come of it.
We all have sexual dreams from time to time, and when you are a young teenager like you are your hormones are raging so sexual dreams are totally normal. Just because you have a sexual dream doesnt mean you love her and something has to happen, dreams are just dreams and have nothing to do with real life.
Try and forget about it and move on, you really dont need to worry about this.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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