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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey,Recently my sister (15) got a new boyfriend.Last night, after having dated for about a month he broke up with her.She was devastated.Shortly after I found out she had sex with him during their relationship, thus losing her virginity.My sister and I are very very close, and im 2 years older than her. She looks up to me and I offer her guidance, although in this situation I don't know what to do for her.Im kind of angry at her for having sex with him, although I won't express these feelings..I just need to know what to do?How can I comfort/support my sister in this situation?Thanks
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reader, supermum  +, writes (2 February 2009):
 The best thing you can do is buy her tissues, chocolate or some other comfort item, and listen to her moans... slagging him off occasionally will help too!!!! apart from that, there is not much you can do... hard as it is, she needs to deal with this herself... undoubtedly it will happen again at some point!!!!
it might be an idea to mention contraception and sex with her once she has recovered from the break up... perhaps giving her a few condoms just to make sure that she stays safe. all the best
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