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How do I choose, my boyfriend or my friend?

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Question - (27 April 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2006)
A female , *obodyknows''butme'' writes:

I went out with this guy for about three months and he cheated on me, couple months later I went out with my best friend. We dated for about a month until my ex came back to the picture. I've been with him for 5 months. My best friend has talked to me since. I'm not in love with my boyfriend any more, I've fallen in love with my friend. I really miss him and nobody knows but me. What do I do?

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A female reader, nobodyknows''butme'' +, writes (12 May 2006):

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Well it's been a couple of months and MY BEST FRIEND told me she likes my guy friend that i talked about but turns out I find out that he has another girlfriend. Should I call this the end of my chances with him? Should I just give my boyfriend one last oppurtunity to prove himself?

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A reader, robinlovescena +, writes (28 April 2006):

robinlovescena agony auntI think that if you do not love your boyfriend, be with the person that you do love--- your friend. It's what you and your heart wants, so follow your heart.

good luck

Robin

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A female reader, Floppy +, writes (28 April 2006):

Floppy agony auntHello,

Do what your heart says to do.. You feel that you were once in love with your boyfriend, who by the sounds of it, isn't really a guy to be trusted seen as he did cheat on you in your first relationship. You still have feelings for your friend, who from what you have said has been faithful to you, i think it would be wise to go back to your friend because you will be happier in that relationship and get your own back on your ex!! He cheated on you, show him you're better than him and show this new guy treats you!! Goodluck!

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A female reader, Ghoul13 +, writes (27 April 2006):

Well, you should get back with your best friend, if you feel that it is right for you...but you shouldn't switch between the two because they'll get fed up, and you'll be left without anyone.

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