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*.love.you
writes:Hello, the other day I was wondering how I could broach the subject of doing something sexual with my boyfriend, not sex, something like oral or what I would prefer is a hand-job.He's not very outgoing usually but when it comes to touching me or vice versa he's very confident and open.So, I'm not scared about being rejected but I am about initiating it, I've never done this things before and though I'm completely ready it would be nice to have a 'battle plan' (lol).I can just see it being awkward both before, during and afterwards - like what on earth do you say after? And do you look at him while you're doing it? Talk?But yes, my MOST IMPORTANT question that I'm asking is how do I initiate it because just sticking my hand on it seems a little forward and he might think "oh my lord, what have I done bringing my balls here..." if you know what I mean?Regards,Jade.
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reader, i.love.you +, writes (14 August 2010):
i.love.you is verified as being by the original poster of the question Right, I'm a novice and believe me - we've talked.
He's reluctant to just talk about it and then it happen as if planned because he says that it's just not special if we do it that way - he wants me to be seductive (HELLO, I've never done seductive before because I've never had the need).
He initiates it enough but I think it would be special for me to do it, show him he's desirable to me.
Regards,
Jade.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): you have to be a lil flirty for a few days. i guess... and by flirty i mean suggestive. if he gets it he might reciprocate. if he doesn't ... well.
you can start by saying dirty jokes. haha.
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