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*ocoSprinkle
writes:bad news!!! my best guy friend who i have a major crush on just got back together with his ex. i dont know if he is tricking me or if he is telling the truth. it is the middle of the summer, he goes to his friend's house and my house, so how did he get back together with his ex? when he told me this, he said that he cant touch me anymore. his ex is going to 8th grade. me and him are going to 7th grade. is there anything i can do to get him to stop dating her, or get him to tell the truth? i need good advice, he is a sneaky guy and he lies alot. help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): Honestly, you want a boyfriend who is a liar? I think that's the worst possible boyfriend you could have. It sounds like he's got another girl and you can't deal with it - well tough, you have to deal with it. You can't force other people to do things you want them to do, it's called being manipulative, and you sure as hell can't make someone love you if they don't.
Give up, and find a better guy. He doesn't sound like a great catch!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (14 August 2010):
 You can't change anything about him, but you can change who you hang out with. This guy sounds like a real scumbag to me. The kind who manipulates girls so he can get a cheap thrill out of feeling powerful. I really would try to find ways to ignore him. Anyone who lies to make you jealous is asking for trouble.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (14 August 2010):
 You cannot stop him from seeing her, but you can stop yourself from wasting any more time on this guy. He's a loser. Set standards for yourself and others will respect you more.
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reader, CocoSprinkle +, writes (14 August 2010):
CocoSprinkle is verified as being by the original poster of the question he is my best friend, i think he is tricking me, we are best friends and he lies to get me jealous all the time. he only goes to my house, his friends, or stays home. i need real help or advice. thank you! :D
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reader, person12345 +, writes (14 August 2010):
He's not trying to trick you, he's dating her and no you can't break them up. Why would you want to be with a "sneaky guy [who] lies a lot?" And as for telling the truth, he's telling the truth. Guys are more straightforward in this regard usually. They say what they mean. You should stay away from him.
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