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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have dated a married man for five years now and i would like to get over him very much. we have not benn intimate for 9 months now but i feel like i am going to go backwards pleas give me advice on how to get over him.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (20 August 2008):
 Think about how wrong it is to carry on with another persons spouse. If or no other reason, do it because it's the proper thing to do. Find a partner who is available. If you have issues to deal with, talk to a therapist. Find out why your integrity is such that it allows you to go down this road.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): Hey, it sounds like you have made a really strong effort to move on from this guy so well done for that.
Have you considered talking to a therapist about why you are drawn to him so strongly? Perhaps if you are able to talk about it with someone who can understand your situation then you will understand why he has such an influence over you.
Once you have this information I don't think he will have such a hold over you any longer and you will be able to begin a new life and eventually find a man who you can call yours.
I imagine it is exciting and fun when you are with him, but I'm sure as you are maybe feeling now, especially as you begin to get older yourself, the desire to have a proper, stable and faithful relationship with a man who is not taken is much more fulfilling.
Well done on not being intimate with him for so long, all you need to do now is take that extra step so you can properly move on with your life and find a guy you deserve.
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