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How do I avoid looking like a fool??

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Question - (3 June 2006) 6 Answers - (Newest, 3 June 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

I'll be going to a party soon with famous people and local celebtities. I'm not a celeb myself. How do you behave, or what can I do or say or talk about that will make these people think that I'm not such a bad 23 yrs of age,young, smart successful guy. I usually am shy at the start but when I get the conversation flowing, and more confidence its great, and comfortable, but thats with people that do similar things to me, I have my own restaurant.

What can I talk about and avoid coming across as a fool especially while chatting with a celeb?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2006):

Just be yourself. Dont be so uptight when you talk to them or try to hard to impress them because then you'll look like an idiot. Oh and just because they're famous doesnt mean that they're special people. Celebrities are normal regular people just like you and there isnt any reason to be worried about how you should act around one. Hey most celebrities arent true or behave like themselves, they're fake when they're in public to impress people and they try so hard to hide any negativity about themselves. Just relax and keep on mind that they are normal people like you and talk to them like you do to anybody. Dont be shy. Hope this helps.

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A female reader, matron +, writes (3 June 2006):

matron agony auntHi, just be yourself, never try to put on an act for anyone cos you wont be able to keep it up for the rest of your life now will you. you're a successful business man, talk about your business but show an interest in their lives at the same time. Relax and enjoy yourself x

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A female reader, Smiler +, writes (3 June 2006):

Smiler agony auntHey there

Well i honestly agree with pheobe i think you should just be yourself sweetie, nobody should have to put on a false front or an act to to be liked or talked to by normal people or celeb's i mean after all they are human too...

they will respect your integrity if you are your normal self once you relax you will be confident and whoever you are talking to at the party will enjoy your pleasent personaility. Concentrate on being yourself and actually having fun and i'm sure you'll be fine.

I hope my advice helped you out a little. Good luck and have fun. Let me know how the party went.

You Take Care X

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A female reader, Smiler +, writes (3 June 2006):

Smiler agony auntHey there

Well i honestly agree with pheobe i think you should just be yourself sweetie, nobody should have to put on a false front or an act to to be liked or talked to by normal people or celeb's i mean after all they are human too...

they will respect your integrity if you are your normal self once you relax you will be confident and whoever you are talking to at the party will enjoy your pleasent personaility. Concentrate on being yourself and actually having fun and i'm sure you'll be fine.

I hope my advice helped you out a little. Good luck and have fun. Let me know how the party went.

You Take Care X

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A female reader, Phoebe Halliwell United Kingdom +, writes (3 June 2006):

Phoebe Halliwell agony auntDear Reader,

this is a problem most people face when knowing they are going to meet lots of celebrities but I bet they're so fed up of people treating them like Aliens or fainting in front of them, the best thing you can do is act normal, be yourself. The people celebs probably see as fools are the people that come up to them with a prepared speech of what they are going to say and talking about their latest movie/book etc. Be cool, be normal, be yourself and trest them like any other person, they'll probably respect you for it!

All the best my start-studded friend in need!

Blessed Be and tell me how it goes!

Phoebe

xxx

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A female reader, camille United Kingdom +, writes (3 June 2006):

camille agony auntCelebrities are just people. Just be yourself. They're human just like you. If they're acting like they're something special, they're not so don't waste your time trying to impress them. Trust me, I work in the entertainment industry, they're surrounded by fakers 24/7, it'll be refreshing to see people behave normally!

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