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writes:How do I ask my wife for anal sex?We used to do it. I'd always wait for her to ask. No pressure! But now it's been about 4 years it doesn't happen. I miss it a lot.
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (22 May 2007):
 You do it directly, honestly and in private so that her repuation is protected at all times. Take her out for a night on the town, and when sex happens, put your attentions on her, and after sex, when she is feeling good bring it up, as something you would like to do again.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (21 May 2007):
 Hi there,
Since you are married, communicating about things liike this should be easy.
Pick a private moment (don't ask her while she's getting ready for work, or if she's running errands) and say, "hey... you remember when we'd get wild? I miss that... sometime do you think we can try anal again? I loved it when we did it."
Just make sure that you don't make her feel bad about it if she doesn't want to. Maybe you guys could go to an adult store together and pick out some fun toys! I think that's a great thing for couples to do.
Be a gentleman about it!
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, kenny  +, writes (21 May 2007):
 Choose the correct moment to ask, like when you are both totally relaxed, over a bottle of wine of something, then ask her if she fancies attempting it again.
Good luck
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reader, DV1 +, writes (21 May 2007):
 Tell her that you'd like to attempt it again.
DV1
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