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30-35,
*essica M Payne
writes:Hi.So my boyfriend is 21 and I'm 22. Been with my boyfriend for a year now, but I'm starting to have mixed emotions all because....my boyfriend hasnt gone "down" on me for the year we have been together, and I don't know how to ask him, how to give him the right sign so he knows what I want, I know my boyfriend has had girlfriends in the past but no longer then half a year, and lost his V card when he was 16...but I don't know if he's actually gone down on any of them?I have gone down on him like 3 to 4 times now...Also my boyfriend and I have never showered before, and only really do the girl on top, then boy on top positions or do the things with our hands/fingers and I'm kinda finding it a "boring" sex life, where I have dated men that are 2 - 3 years older then me and they just do the things, ive never had to wait so long :/ sorry the the information, but i need help!apart from these issues, my partner is an amazing guy :)Please help me out.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (14 September 2015):
 So he's boring in bed. Time to take charge then. The other men just did things without you having to tell them, but is it always the mans job to experiment sexually?
It could be your man is just boring in bed, and will never be any better. But you never know if you don't talk to him, tell him what you want, take charge and just DO the things YOU want to do. See if he plays along.
Go down on him more. 3-4 times a year??? Oral sex should be part of foreplay at all times. Make it a part of your routine. You do him, he does you, then intercourse, then you finish yourself off afterwards with a play or the shower. Make THAT your routine. Then start adding new positions. Move around! At first though, you'll have to guide him, because if he's not used to it he wont catch the drift by himself.
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reader, Jessica M Payne +, writes (14 September 2015):
Jessica M Payne is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm not one for really opening up....i get that from past relationships. :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2015): Just say that you want him to go down on you, simple as that. Guys sometimes won't get the hint, so you have to say it straight foreword.
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