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writes:Hey guys! I really really like this guy and I think he likes me too as he's always laughing at my jokes and smiling at me! The thing is he is single but I've never asked a guy out before and I don't know how to! Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010): Thanks for all your suggestions! It turned out that this guy liked me too and when I went round his house for extra tutoring he asked me out!! But I didn't play hard to get because this guy is really really sweeet and Probabaly likes me for me! Thanks for all the advice though!!
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (20 November 2010):
 I asked my boyfriend out and we have been happily together for the past two and a half years. This is the 21st century, if you want to ask a guy out, ask him out. Tell him you would like to go out on a date? Or maybe just as friends at first (but you risk being put in the friends zone.)
Don't be scared, if he says no, then you will find someone who appreciates the awesomeness that is you.
Boys like to chase. Its a fact. Don't play too hard to get or he will think you are being snotty.
If you aren't comfortable asking him out on a date, then just tell him you want to get to know him and better and hang out more often than you do now. Go to a movie.
Good luck, let me know how it goes.
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reader, AILANFANF +, writes (20 November 2010):
WinnieThePoohRocks! could not be more wrong, what she describes are pricks, decent guys (the kind u want) are flattered when you ask them out, and dont take advantage of you.
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reader, muffy +, writes (19 November 2010):
 Hun,you are a strong independent young lady.All you have to do is ask if he would like to go to the movies with you or go hang out at the park or anything else fun you can think of.Whatever you decide,make sure the both of you have fun and mainly,just be yourself.Build up your confidence and just do it.That's all there is to it.I hope it all works out for you.If you need anything let me know.
Love and kisses,
Muffy33
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reader, WinnieThePoohRocks!  +, writes (19 November 2010):
whatever you do , no matter what age you are , the girl neveer asks the guy out ,, NEVER.
cuz if he says yes he knows he can fool around with you cuz you mustv'e liked him lots to ask HIM out inda first placee..
don't be all over him likee a rash girlfriend!
play hard to get .. be mean keep e'm keen !
smile back , maybe give a cheeky wink , see how far he is willin to go with all this flirtin and if he winks back or whatever , he's defo intrested .. then without a doubt withing the space of about 2 weeks he'll have asked you out ! and even for the first few weeks of you relationship(to be) don't be obsessed with him or tell him ya love him that soon . even then play kinda hard to get , but not that hard cuz boys are lazy and they wont chase ya forever ..!\
hope i helpd ..
xxxx
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