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writes: when my husband and i first talk about anal sex, we both agreed we were not interested. its been about a year now, and i think i want to try. what is the best way to approch him about trying anal sex?
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reader, CarrieMagdelene  +, writes (5 January 2007):
 Good question. I've faced it a time or two with my boyfriend of a year, but I decided against asking about it because I realized I was not as into it as I thought. Perhaps you might casually ask him sometime (not in bed or durin vaginal intercourse because hey, that might turn him off a bit if he's not into it) while talking about random sexual things, or just couple things, perhaps during pillow talk. When ever you think would be the best time to bring it up really. A good question may be 'Do you still feel like you're not interested in anal?' or 'How do you feel about anal sex?' However you would like to word it. Just try to feel confident, because it's a sexy trait. Good luck, and enjoy life! -Carrie
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): nothing to say that you gave to rush into a full porno style piledriving.
just have him start will giving you a little exterior anus stimulation during oral after a shower. Once thats in the routine see where it goes.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (5 January 2007):
 How to approach the idea of anal sex......from behind...I couldn't resist... :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): My boyfriend is obsessed with anal sex which is why I am on this site - do you want to swap as I am sick to death of it.
I think it is healthy to experiment, believe me I am no prude, but if your husband is uncomfortable with it maybe it is best to leave it alone. Remember they are the ones with the erogenous zone up there not us and you may get more than you bargained for.
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reader, hemé'oono +, writes (5 January 2007):
 Have you experimented with toys? If you have and you enjoy it then just ask him. Tell him that you know you guys talked about it and weren't interested at that time. But that you have been thinking that you thing you may be interested and want to try it. You may be suprised, we all like sexual change and excitement and it may turn out to be something you both have wanted but were afraid to ask. If he doesn't want to try it then ask if he would be interested in using a toy on you that way. Either way, you have opened the lines of communication and all he can say is "no"...however, I seriously doubt he will.
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