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writes: I am a catholic girl and really like a guy who attends the church I go to. I know he likes me, but it is so hard to try and really get to know him properly. I beleive that the man should make the first move, I would never like to approach him, I am quite shy and he is too. Other then do nothing and try and get his attention somehow I don't really know if there is anything I can do. I don't want to come across as desperate or do anything, or do anything that will scare him off! Any advice appreciated.
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reader, Helen Help! :)  +, writes (16 June 2006):
 Hey Huni,
Ya know when it comes to askin people out men can be just as terrified as women all you have to do if u really like him is pluck up some courage walk over to him start a conversation off find something u have in common and then somehow make a suttle hint that you would like to do somthing with him perhaps say theres a new resturant im dying to try out, ever been? well would you like to go with me? crack a smile maybe a joke and there u go try it see how things go be brave girl go get ur man! Good Luck
Helen x
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reader, Bobbyjo +, writes (7 June 2006):
 Youre right, it is more traditional for the man to make the first move when it comes to dating. But it is 2006 and alot of peoples views on this have changed. In my opinion, a girl chasing after a guy doesnt seem desperate; she seems confident and outgoing. And these 2 qualities are what attracts men to women the most.
You dont have to go overboard and stalk the guy. But I mean a subtle smile and glance his way whilst standing in church wouldnt hurt. If you know he likes you then just strike up conversation with him one day or just say hi when you see him. He will probably be so gratfeul you made the first move and may come out of his shell a little bit.
If you really cant approach him first, then why not hint to somebody you know who knows him that you like him.Also, try to find out info about him and what his likes and dislikes are so this will give you something to strike up conversation about. Just come across as friendly and approachable, and yes you may be shaking underneath, but you must keep in mind that if you dont make a move soon then you could be losing out on something very special in your life. x
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