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writes:guy i need ur help, i was wondering if a guy wants to flirt with a girl, what actions would he do?? eg play with her hair, her ears, touch her, pinch her cheeks...are these normal actions or actions of flirting?? and what u like a girl to do to flirt with u...i dont mean the normal touch him on the arm?? what else could be done...and another question: where do guys like to be touched in a non sexual way, what i mean is that, i, a girl,likes to be touched on my waist(hutting his hands over my waist), playing with my hair, etc...so where do guys like to be touched, at the back of the neck perhaps?? any other places? the arm??...thx,would really appreciate ur help
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): I personally don't let guys get touchy feely with me unless I am actually dating him. I am not going to let anyone tickle my ear or play with my hair unless he is my boyfriend. I don't like that. Letting a guy get too touchy feely with you or you being too touchy feely with him, is beyond flirting, that's more like insinuating that you JUST want to hook up with him. And that is EXACTLY how he will interpret it.
I am a huge flirt but I don't flirt like that unless I am actually dating and sleeping with a guy.
But if he is just someone I like and want to get to know better I flirt and charm him through conversation. Laugh alot, talk alot, ask him questions. See if through CONVERSATION you guys have anything in common...If I hit it off with him in conversation and we both definitely know we like each other and get along really well, that's when I let him know I like him, and usually I don't waste time with little tickles or anything, I just go straight for a kiss...That's just me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): I melt for anyone who runs their fingers through the hair on the back of my head and uses light fingers on the back of my neck. It is extremely relaxing. Shoulder rubs and light fingers on my back through clothing are also really nice. These things feel heavenly but don't necessarily infer anything sexual. It establishes touch, but isn't as intitmate as hand holding.
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