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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: when my boyfriend and i have sex we alwasy start with out a condom then later put one on but then he'll take it off for me to give him head or something then keep having sex or just finish with out it. i HATE them mess, besides the fact it makes me feel very porn star-ish with him finishing all over me. how can i talk to him about finishing in a condom rather than on me with out it being awkward or making him mad?
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reader, adamantine +, writes (10 May 2011):
Well you do have sex with him, so you should be comfortable to talk to him about this. It's your body and you do have a say in what goes down, so ask him nicely where he'd like to finish, or maybe give head with the condom on? With sex comes a bit of mess so it's natural.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011): Tell him too finish in a tissue instead of YOU
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