A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:This is a question I suspect I already know the answer to but would like to ask anyway.My ex bf and I were together close to three years. He cheated on me in the beginning of the relationship. I forgave him and we moved on. I now found out that he had been lying and cheating on me for all the three years. My question here is could he have loved me/cared for me at all? How could he come home to me after being with other women- why? He continued doing things for me and when I asked him why he bothered since he was clearly interested in those other women, all he said was because he liked doing things for me. Does that even make any sense? How do you justify cheating on someone and then doing 'stuff' for them cause you like it?
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (24 May 2008):
 Nightmare. Well i guess there are guys out there, and ive had one of them myself, that had a use for everyone in their life. But it sounds like he possibly liked the stable home life, but wanted the thrills of something new too. Cake and eat it sprngs to mind.
C xxxxx
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): No, strange as it sounds- I trusted him completely. Even after he betrayed my trust the first time. In my opinion, it would've been better to break up with me. Tell me straight that he was interested in seeing other women. Three years is too long to be lying to someone and taking them for a ride. So he did care for the things he was getting from me and not me?
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (24 May 2008):
Hi
I have no idea, it certainly doesn't make any sense does it. Did you really have no inklings anything strange was going on? And little clues? Not even instincts? Usually us women have good instincts.
C xxxxx
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