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How could I reach O with him on top?

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Question - (10 January 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 January 2007)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

As the song goes.."she only comes when she's on top" am i normal!!!??

Yes, this is my problem and its troubling me a lot ever since. I couldnt come unless im on top or unless im touching myself. I have no clue if im the only person that has this problem. I want to be able to reach orgasm during missionary pos.I think it is very romantic and very feminine to reach climax with the man you love on top of you.

Any suggestions?

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A female reader, Lilly223 United States +, writes (10 January 2007):

Lilly223 agony auntYou are certainly not the only one with this problem but the solution I found is to lower my legs so they are parallel to his,(instead of wrapped around him) but still slightly bent at the knees. This pushes the area that needs the "action" closer to him. You may have to make some minor adjustments to make sure you are getting "contact" (Like move your entire body an inch or two down.) Once you can feel pressure from his pubic bone on the area you need it, give him the go ahead. :) It may take a few tries. If this isn't explicite or detailed enough, feel free to PM me, I'll get more specific if you need it, I'm just not keen on posting a really graphic message here for public eyes, particularly really young ones.

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A female reader, dragonette Sweden +, writes (10 January 2007):

dragonette agony auntWell, it's very difficult to come that way because when he's on top he will not stimulate you so much as if you're on top and have control of everything.

You're far from the only one who has this problem. There's a large percentage of women in the world who would be jealous of you for managing to climax at all!

And I think it's just as romantic and feminine to come when you're on top, but that's just my personal thought on the issue.

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