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writes: I feel so stupid. I met this guy as soon as our eyes met we flirted. He got my number and we started texting each other. He called me 'gorgeous' and said he wanted me. A week later, I followed him home. Once inside we started snogging and things got out of hand and we ended up having unprotected sex. Thing is, after we done it he told me nothing can come of this because he's engaged to a girl in Portugal, and he's allowed to have fun while she's away. The next day I was out with some mates and I saw him holding hands with another girl. I'm 16 and he's 20. Now I feel so used and stupid because I honestly thought he liked me. What do you think I should do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007): Well you should tell him your true feelings about him. Im 17 i should know. When you see him again with that girl. Tell her that he will do her the same way
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reader, helpfull girl +, writes (28 September 2005):
obvously this guy is 1 big loser. just pull your self together and carry on doing the things you would normally do dont let the bas**** drag you down, his not worth it! and the end of the day his going to end up a lonely old man and your be a unlonely old woman with a family! if you can get contact of his engaged girl friend if he has one then tell her what his doing as she does need to know! dont let older men walk over you.
before jumping into bed with someone make sure their worth it dont give in easy let them prove they ent going to use you! if you are a liker of older men dont let this creep turn you off there are sum lovely older men out there trust me i know im with a guy 21yrs older than me and he treats me like royaltie! dont let him make you give up hope!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2005): you know you will have to thank yourself first for making that mistake. the point is to never do it again. don't follow anybody home you just met. you don't know. maybe you should ask yourself why you did this. is it because you are young and inexperienced or because you feel bad about yourself? and think hard about it!! i'm writing to you because this happened to me once and it was worse because i fell in love with the asshole and am still hurt after more than a year. look at it as a gift. this way you are able to take notice sooner than later. could be worse, alot worse. you could get a disease from someone who sleeps around or wind up with a kid he doesn't want to help you take care of. he's no loss honey-- feel sorry for him and his girlfriend not for yourself!!! obviously it's them who can't help themselves and deserve each others nastiness not you. forgive yourself for screwing up-- after all you're the human being here who feels bad for making a mistake. think of all the feeling this jerk has for all the women he fucks. huh! him and his dumb obsessed bitch that hangs on--forget him-- the sooner the better!! next time take your time go for a boy that will talk to you and take it slow. listen for someone who wants to make a genuine conversation and get to know you not just feed you lines. you know a jerk when he'll tell you what he knows you want to hear and the way you can tell is when what he says doesn't fit the profile. example: when he tells you he writes poetry and his skater shoes are held together with duct tape. or he wears an armani suit and drives a shit-box truck. my retarded italian policeman told me his dad was going to paris for a work meeting. i suppose he divined i spoke french. i suppose too his dad sat around drinking coffee and discussing philosophy surrounded by beautiful women. ha. my ass. his dad's a mute plumber. get the picture?? go for a whole man not a half-wit :)
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (28 September 2005):
 Don't worry about it, we all make these mistakes. People can be so cruel and use us but you just have to use them as a lesson learnt, a mistake not to be made again.
It's sad because it's idiots like him that make us lose all our faith in men and take it out on the next guy who may be very nice and genuine.
Just be more careful in future, make a person prove to you that they care about you and want to be with you before giving yourself to them. I know you feel stupid but you've learnt from this, you're wiser now. He's still a complete loser with no respect for anyone, let alone himself so forget about him and move on a stronger, wiser women. Good luck and chin up :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2005): What you should do is chalk it up as a lesson. Don't be so stupid in the future. Keep a nickel betwixt the knees my dear.
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