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writes:Hey,Basically my Ex broke up with me this month. It was because I'm off to uni, he told me he can't commit to a relationship or can't be in one. So fine, I was gutted but that's what he wants, right? Slowly getting over him, decided to have a look round on Facebook and what do I find? Him being in a relationship with someone already. Really wouldn't have cared if it was like 3 months later or something, but 3 WEEKS? I honestly thought he cared about me, I didn't think he'd do that. Not only that, but he promised to keep in contact with me and I heard not one peep of him since. The fact he can be with someone else rather than me REALLY hurts. I'm better off without him, I know that now, I just can't believe he would ever do this to me. It's like a slap in the face, tbh. Can anyone please give me a piece of advice? Thanks x
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reader, jc2008 +, writes (23 September 2009):
I had this done to me too, they broke up and within 2 weeks they stopped talking to me and had a new supposidly happy relationship with "the one" makes you sick doesnt it.. yuck!
Anyway your off to Uni which is full of new and interesting people, so enjoy Uni and put this down to experience!
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (23 September 2009):
 I don't think you need advice, hun. This sucks a lot. Regardless of his motivation, he clearly wasn't honest, but I think you are doing the right thing for yourself.
Keep healing... when you're back from University, maybe he'll regret his decision.
;-)
Good luck.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 September 2009):
I have a good friend and she had exactly the same thing happen to her. He dumped her because she was going to uni, said he'd stay in contact, didn't and then got a new girlfriend. So she ceased all contact, let herself grieve for a while, then when out with her friends, had lots of fun and met a far better guy and is now with him. Forget about this guy. He couldn't commit to you. You're at uni now, so go out with those friends and have fun! You'll find the right guy for you eventually. x
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