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writes:my bf of 16 months acts like he wants to have sex but i don't want it yet.how can you tell if he's ready?how can you tell if your ready?plz helpxx Reply to this Question
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reader, Asexy  +, writes (19 December 2007):
 Your body, your rules. If he isn't mature enough to understand that, then he's not someone you should be with for your first time. You can always have your first time LATER, but once it's gone, it's gone. If you're not ready, then wait. And if he's not willing to wait for you, then he cares more for himself than he does for you.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (19 December 2007):
 my rule of thumb is that if your questioning it, your not ready.
You already said yourself you dont want it yet, so your not ready i think.
You will know when your ready, it feels different to different people but they know. Just dont feel pressured to do it because he wants to have sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007): You just said that you don't want to do it yet - when you are ready you will know, possibly be nervous yes, but you will know.
It is prob better to wait for a bit - many people who have had sex early in their life regret it, but those who have sex later abrely ever regret it. Don't let anyone pressurise you to do anything you don't want to - but when you are ready, make sure you are safe.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007): I think you should only have sex with someone if you love them - and only do it when you are ready. provided you are above the right age (you are) and have the relevant contraceptives, go for it. it will bring you both together and i know i waited with my first boyfriend till we were going out a year or so, so i knew i wasnt going to be used.
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