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How can you tell if he genuinely likes you, or just wants your body?

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Question - (7 January 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

How can you tell the difference between a guy liking you vs. a guy just wanting your body? I have noticed either way they flirt, compliment and just make you feel good. What are the differences? How can you tell if he is telling the truth when he says "I like you".

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (8 January 2008):

Collaroy agony auntIts very easy. Men are pigs! We all flirt, we all cant help a sneeky peek if you look darn sexy , but the gentlemen among us know that if you try and pounce on a girl then she is not going to respect you.

My own personal M.O was to hang out for a few weeks first, go to the movies , coffee shops, etc , become friends first and foremost. During this time there is no harm in a wee kiss, or a hug, but if a guy gives you a hug on the second date and grabs your arse then you pretty well know his intentions. By the way, the same guys who try and get you into bed on the first or second dates are also the ones who then say you are too easy.

The bottom line is , if he respects you then he will wait, and boy with my wife we waited till we felt comfortable - wow! talk about relieving built up tension!!!

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (7 January 2008):

kenny agony auntI think basically the guy who genuinly likes you will show you more respect than the guy who just wants you body. The first guy will want to get to know you, talk to you, be interested in things that you have done, or are doing, and when he tells you he likes you me will mean it. The second guy will want to advance on you and take things further in a much shorter time span, and will be less interested in things about you.

Hope this helps x

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