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writes:Ok.There's something thats really bothering me.My ex-boyfriend is going out with my bestfriend.I told her that I didnt mind and I no longer have feeling for him. The thing is I kind of still do I mean I told her that like a week before they dated but she just really seemed to like him so I told her I changed my mind and I didnt really like him anymore. Im surprised she belived me.And the thing is they dont even really know eachother I mean they never talk on the phone and even in real life. I would no this because she never wants to be alone with him she always drags me along and it seems like its not her and him on the date its me and him. As much as he tries to talk to her she doesnt want to. She says shes to scared to talk to him and its really weird. They've broken up 3 times. And all those times she asked me to get them back together because she was afraid to do it herself and i always did get them back together beacuse she says she "in love" with him but how can you love someone you barely even know? So thats where I need the help im really not sure what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008): She's not ready for that sort of relationship. And you should tell her the truth about not likeing the fact that you two are together, stating that you KNOW [key word] that you should have told her before but you didn't want to get in the way. Say that it's hard for you to attend the dates with her, as it seems your raking up the past.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): Ok first thing:
They aren't in love.
You and your friend are both young. She can't be in love with someone she's afraid to talk to and be with alone. I don't think she understands what it is to be in love.
If I were you I would ask my friend to stop putting me in the middle of their relationship. I would tell her it makes me uncomfortable and you are trying to move on with your life after splitting up with him and that it would be best for her to interact with him on her own so she can get to know him better!
Good luck :)
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