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male
age
30-35,
*ack_tols
writes: I have a girlfriend that has not done it yet and I was wondering if there is any way to do it so it will not hurt for her. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): hi, to be honest in my opinion the first time for a female is in most cases is going to hurt a little. its just uncomfortable so just reasure her that shes going to be ok shes probably nervous. getting her to relax will make her more comfortable. im sure it will be fine.
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female
reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 January 2009):
Go slow. Lots of foreplay so her body is actually ready to receive you. That means plenty wet on her part.
USE a condom!
If she has trouble getting wet use water based lube.
Let her help you guide you and let her set the pace for the penetration.
Most of all relax.
It doesn't have to hurt, just because it's her first time.
Use a Condom. She shouldn't have to worry about pregnancy or std's. Neither should you. Bring more then one.
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