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writes:I've only been with my boyfriend for almost 3months, but we've kind of been on/off before that as i've known him sinse i was about 6 even though he's in the year above. I know you young people arn't supposed to know what "love" actually is, but i know i love him and he loves me as much as i can at my age. We see each other alomst everyday, but all we ever really do is "go out" as in wander around holding hands, kissing, talking etc. Every so often we go on the occasional date or we go back to each others for abit.Anyways onto my question, the thing is, even though we go back to each others house, we NEVER have any privacy, as either his mum and dad are in, or any of my family are at home. I'm fourteen and he's fifteeen in a couple of days. Were both virgins and i intend to keep that way untill i'm sixteen and legal, but we both want to start to do the other stuff, as in oral,etc. Seen as its my first time in doing anything with a boy, i at least want to be inside, i couldn't think of anything worse than being outside on your' first time.Anyway sorry that this is abit long, but does anybody have any suggestions of anything, if anybody else might of/maybe in this situation? As were both ready, but it seems as though we never will be able to do anything.thanks x
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reader, dummyduckling +, writes (7 June 2008):
 well i cant blame yours and his parents for being in whilst you two are. me and my fiancce have been together a year and were both 18 and we only just get left in the house alone. your parents are just worried that you may get pressured in to doing something. there parents you cant blame them for being worried, sure its your life and they cant live it for you but they just dont want you to get hurt.me and my partner didnt get in to heavy petting for at least 5 / 6 months, its not worth it until you know its the right thing to do. i hope this helps you hunni, just remember, your parents are just doing this becasue they care.
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (7 June 2008):
I think you should wait until you are not on and off. It will really hurt you if you do have oral sex and then you guys go into an off period. It will make you doubt yourself and could really mess you up. Dont do anything until you have been on for three months so you know he wont go into an off period after!
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (7 June 2008):
 at your age you will be watched a lot, i know that when i was younger my parents used to have me go and check on my older brother and his girlfriend to make sure they werent doing the same things that your looking to do. my parents also never let us close the bedroom doors if we ahd a girl over. you really have to be careful with this because if you do something and your parents catch you, you probably wont be able to see him for awhile and they will watch you even closer. sorry i dont think i was much help, but good luck. oh one last thing you should probably wait another 2 mounths or so befor you do anything, 3 mounths is just a little too early, even if you are in love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): Vow, you are still young and have plenty of time, don't rush! You will find the right opportunity if you are patient enough!
Don't spoil it by rushing into it, wait and let it be special!
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