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writes:Hi, I am going out with my partner for the last 2 years. We moved in together about 3 months ago. It's been pretty up and down since then. We argue a fair bit. I have a son from my previous relationship (he's a teenager) and I think my partner is a bit jealous of him. It seems like he is always criticising me or him. I love him to bits and I know my son likes him, he just gets frustrated by his rants,and I know he loves me but I don't know how to get past these petty rows (they're not even proper ones) That's what makes it so annoying. We argue over the stupidist things. Can someone give me some advice please to try and figure how we can get past all the silly argueing. We have slipped into a rut and i don't know how to get us out of it. We have a chance of having a great life together. Should I give up on this relationship or keep trying??
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThings went from bad to worse last night. He thinks I spoil my son too much and he has me wrapped around his little finger. He said he's not happy and i've said im not happy. Should we just walk away or try and fix this. We do love each other but its just so hard right now!! Please help
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reader, Richard_EMids  +, writes (3 December 2007):
 Change your outlook. Just say - Honey, I don't want to argue with you over petty issues and if we have major issues lets discuss them.
Richard
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