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writes:my boyfriend and I just celebrated our 8 month anniversary yesterday. When we were at our 4 month we decided to move in together. I know it was kinda quick but we have lived together ever since. When we did not live together we got along so great. Now, I am not saying we dont get along anymore but I feel like we got along a lot better when we lived seperatley. We do love eachother very much and we often talk about a future together but there have been a few times when we have argued so much that we talk about breaking up. Now I dont think either one of us want that so does anyone have any tips about making a relationship work while living under the same roof and not being married? I mean guys, tell me what you think I should do. What does he want? and what should I do for him to make him happy as well as being strong and faithful to myself?
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 It's a fantastic idea to live together before marriage because it;s not until you do that that you find out everything about each other, noone can tell you what he want or how you can make him happy the only thing i can suggest to you is you both sit down together and write down the things you like about living together and the things you don;t like then you swap and read each others this worked very well for me and my husband because then you can both avoid doing the things that wind the other up and concentrate more on the things you both like.
Take care.xx.
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