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female
age
36-40,
*ataliemarie
writes: My boyfriend and I have dated for 4 years. We had had an on and off type of relationship . I feel that I am not IN love with him anymore, I have felt this for a long time but have been reluctant to end things forever - as there are a lot of good qualities in him. However, We do not go on dates beside the movies here and there, he doesn't take me around his family or friends- and I feel like we haven't gained any ground as a couple. I don't want to take him for granted because of these issues and I want to address them- What should I do? How can I approach him about this?
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (9 August 2010):
You will be amazed how being open and honest w/ him will bring to your relationship! or whether or not you'll move on! how will you get your answers? you are looking for if your not honest w/ him and about who you are! and then you 2 can go from there. if you are afraid of hurting him? well by lying about your relationship is leaving him in the dark so how is he to know what to do? or how to handle it w/ you i think he deserves that much from you. and you too will feel better about you.
Good Luck!
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