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writes:How can men be so cruel sometimes? How can they act like the love someone and then dump them a week later like they dont even matter and as if they are just something they played with and threw away? I mean aren't we all people and should be treated as such? I realize not all are this way but why do so many act like pigs?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Ted-ster +, writes (1 January 2009):
Not sure if you're sexually involved with these guys, but men do not respect women who sleep with them too quickly. Sure, the guys will have fun, and that's a woman's choice, too, but these women aren't the gals he'll bring home to Momma.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (1 January 2009):
 Lack of integrity, in my opinion. Perhaps the reason that there is a good number of both men and women who can so easily use others, and then toss them like you described, is that they are so self-centered they have no regard for anyone but themselves. In my opinion, it is similar to the attitude of thieves, who pilfer from others with no thought about the harm caused. In other words, I think that a percentage (about 15% estimate) of people on the planet are basically rotten, self-serving deviants, to some degree or another. The worst of all are murderers, rapists and violent criminals, but it is the same "lack of integrity" that drives the guy you described. Learn how to detect the trait early and keep them away from you.
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reader, loner  +, writes (1 January 2009):
 in our day and age its a really tough one. I have find myself in many many relationships where guys just use me and a few months later whe they are done with me just put me a side and slowly fade. It does hurt and the best way to stay away from guys like that is try and find a group of guys and pick out the 'best' behaved one. Most of the time, the younger generation of guys always seem to appear cool and in the in crowd, as older guys have respect and actually do care.. All males, good and bad, have at least a few good qualities. They would normally work on, 'what you give is what you get' term. So maybe you should just leave the males for a bit and once you feel comfy being around them give 'love' another chance.
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