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writes:"hi, my husband's sister feels possessive about him, they are very close and my husband is a doctor. she talks about bra, nipples and takes suggestion from him about sex, it is normal to have such talks even when I said I'm feeling discomfort by her wordshow can I tell her to stop discussing about such stuff to my husband
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reader, san674 +, writes (19 August 2015):
san674 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all the replies, i told her and my husband that she has to c a gynaecologist for these kind of problems cause I'm very possessive about my husband and don't like my husband to hear these kind of stuff from her, and even after marriage he changes his clothes in front of her which is annoying to me,
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (18 August 2015):
 Just ask your HUSBAND to have these chats with his sister in private as you don't particularly like to hear about it.
I honestly see nothing REALLY wrong in two sibling being open about the subject of sex. With him being a doctor, I bet he at times hears "worse" at work.
However, that doesn't mean they NEED to have these conversation at the dinner table or in front of you.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (17 August 2015):
 "Hey, I know you two are super close and that you feel comfortable talking about all kinds of things but I have to let you know that it makes me very uncomfortable. In the future, I'd prefer that you have these conversations about sex and intimate body parts not in my presence. Thank you for respecting my modesty and not embarrassing me further."
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (17 August 2015):
 have you discussed with your HUSBAND that this bothers you?
would it bother you if it was his BROTHER having this conversation with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2015): it is not uncommon for the brother sister relationship to be quite a close one and it is not unusual for these kind of conversations to take place.From your sister in laws point of view who is better to ask as he is medically qualified and a doctor.I expect your brother is used to being informal medical adviser on many occassions for family and friends and he goodheartedly participates in finding the correct answer.They will think it very odd if you object,particukarly as you will expect him to assess the childrens health now and again.He is your husband but you cant expect to lock his mind away from others,particularly as he may have good advice to offer.
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