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writes:Im a 16yr old guy, and iv fallen in love with probably the closest person to me in my life. I've known her from the day she was born and we have always got on like brother and and sister and best friends. However the problem is she is only 14 going on 15, I know its not that much of and age gap but still.I really need to tell her but im not sure how esp without scaring her away or upsetting her.Any advice on how to tell her, what to say etc. would be much appreciated cheers.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (9 September 2007):
 Just tell her your honest feelings. If your friendship is as strong as you say it is, telling her won't make a difference as friends. She might like you the way you like her too. Only one way to find out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes i am really 16, nearly 17. My profile thing is just mucked up.But yea thanks for the advice guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): wait till she's 15. Are you really 16 as it says on your profile your 18-21? if you are 18 don't go near her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): You ought to just tell her how you feel! You never know whether or not she feels the same way back. Just be honest and tell her exactly what you're feeling. If she's as good a friend as you say, she won't be put off by what you have to say to her. You owe it to yourself to find out how she feels back and put your worries to rest. You don't want to have to sit and wonder forever. Go for it! Good luck and take care!
-RJGirl
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