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How can I tell if I'm gay?

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Question - (26 March 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 March 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I think I might be bi or lesbian. When did you figure out you were bi/lesbian/gay? I'm not sure, but I want to know if I am. I'm very confused :(

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2011):

Hi im a lesbian that has just come out. it took me to realise that i wanted to spend my life with a female. take your time dont label yourself too fast. lg.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011):

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I've had "lesbian experiences" as in making out with other girls but I don't know if its just the excitement of something new or if I am actually bi/lesbian. (for the record I'm 15) I've had a boyfriend who I was really attracted to...but since then I haven't really been attracted that much to any guy, for instance sometimes I get bored when I'm making out with my current boyfriend. Is that a sign?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011):

Hi I discovered that I like women when I was 11. It took me a while to accept that I am a lesbian but the signs are obvious to the actual person even though others probably won't notice. The most obvious sign is that if you're gay or bisexual, you will be attracted to women; you may even get aroused by certain aspects of the female form such as the obvious, breasts. In all honesty, that's the only real sign that you like women but if you are completely gay then you won't be attracted to men. It really is that simple. Good luck and I hope you figure out who you really are

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