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writes:How can i tell if i had sex?Yesterday night i got overly drunk and remember most of my night but now my friend is telling me we had sexI'm not worried about being pregnant or anything but just for the sake of curiosity i want to know if it really happened or not..i try my absolute hardest to only have sex with people who mean a lot to me...and i haven't had sex in over a yeardon't you think that if it happened i would feel sore today or just somehow know..or be able to tell?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010): Ah well the guy was my friend and he claims it happened. But he beyond likes me so i think he might have just said it to make me like him more or somethingYeah i'm on the pill and ofcourse i'm worried about pregnancy but if it didn't happen i have no worries..and he told me he pulled outthanks for your help but i discussed it with him for a while and i've figured it out now..but yeah you are completely right. i have been drinking like this for years and finally i have got myself into a sticky situation that was well deserved. i hope i learn from this now and make wiser decisions in the future.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (5 February 2010):
 I would think that you'd have some memory, at least of some guy, or kissing, or something. Especially if you remember most of your night. Why does your friend think you had sex? Did she see you? Did she hear you? Is somebody claiming they had sex with you?
And, of course, it is a possibility that you did. If you blacked out, maybe you did have an unremembered tryst. Why wouldn't you be worried about pregnancy? Are you on the Pill and taking it regularly? And, even if you are on the Pill, unless you used a condom (and it's COMPLETELY possible that you didn't. If you don't remember having sex, why would you remember whether or not you used a condom?), you could have been exposed to an STI. So, be cautious and presumptuous and just go and get a clean bill of health. Better safe than sorry - trite, but true.
A good lesson learned - try not to overindulge. You don't want to have nights you don't remember!! Good luck, sweetness!
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