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writes: Does anybody have any experience with or know how I would aproach the subject with a guy I'm seeing on how to kiss better?!?!He just kisses so big, and I mean massive, I almost feel like I need to wipe my face with a towel after. No joke, it makes me feel kind of ill and I really need to tell him because it's ruining our closeness and I'm purposely avoiding getting intimate with him now.Any help on how to approach it would be really appreciated, cheers. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): Come straight out and say it. Just say, you love the heck out of him, but find his kissing technique not to your liking.Tell him this matters not as he is gonna get in a shit load of training with you, and by the end of the week he'll be a f'ing virtuoso in that department.
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reader, Wise Woman of the Forest  +, writes (27 June 2010):
 Haaa, I've had this experience before D:It's not nice. Try forceful tongue...So as not to knock his confidence, perhaps take the lead, he should follow. If not, perhaps tutor him in some way :LAll I have to say on the matter.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (26 June 2010):
 Approach it softly. Don't ever tell him he kisses horribly. Just continue to kiss him! You want him to be confident that you love kissing him. With time he will adjust to you as you adjust to him. If you want to speed up this process, kiss him first, and let him kiss you the way he usually does. Then after a little tell him you would like to try a different type of kissing, something you enjoy. Don't tell him what he does is wrong or that you don't like it. Go about this as you showing him how he can please you more than he already is. He should be happy to learn.
Kiss him a lot. That will let him know you enjoy kissing him, and he will be more than happy to be as great as a kisser for you as he can be. Tell him sometimes kissing like he usually does is fine, but some times you want another type of kiss (and then show him how you want it). There are many types of kisses, so enjoy figuring it out with your boyfriend!
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reader, yag +, writes (26 June 2010):
if you and him are close just tell him and give him advice.i have had this same problem before, it felt like my face was being washed, rather revolting. i got so distant he started asking why, so in the end i had to tell him. if he is so bothered about not getting intimate then he will take your advice.just tell him to think, smaller.
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