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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone.Well my friend T and i hse gotten closer, weve known each other for years, hes 18 and im 21. We first met in elementary school in dentention back then i use to just think of him as a friend. We would run into each other over the years, but recently started seeing each other more, now we see each other everyday. Both us like each other but were both shy, and he seems to pretend he doesnt like me but everyone knows. Well we had a moment, when we kissed and it was very different from anything else, it was sweet, but afterwards he acted like it never happened, and hes had a lot of stress with his family involving police. I dont do well with confrontation, and hes the type that would cause a space between us if i even tried. How can I talk to him about it without directly bringing it up, and are there anyways I could flirt with him? We play fight sometimes but i try to keep it from becoming just two friends and it doesnt seem like it, but id like to move past our shyness. Thanks for any help.
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (7 August 2012):
 Usually when people kiss, tease one another, and spend time together, that means they like each other. Does he actually have to SAY IT? My boyfriend and I never had that discussion. We knew we enjoyed spending time together and things just kind of progressed. Plus, I would not see someone everyday if I did not like him. I think you do want to be careful that he is not just playing with you. If he kissed you and then acted like nothing happened, that is usually not good. Or, he may just be immature when it comes to girls, but whatever the case, I wouldn't get too emotionally involved yet...if you haven't already.
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