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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i will start from the beginning there is this girl who went out with my best mate and she added me on facebook and msn so we started to get to know each other eventually she and my mate broke up after a few weeks/months and i didn't really talk to her in person at school we only spoke mainly on msn and facebooki then started having feelings for her and i just kept thinking about her all day everyday so i told her that i liked her and she said it was sweet i then felt that my feelings grew and i thought i was in love and i told her that i loved her but really it was a crushi then left school was in the year below me and then we couldn't speak for a while because my msn broke but i eventually sent her a message on bebo and she replied a few times i really didn't like her in that way anymore but when i went on holiday i had a good but misserable time on somedays because i missed her so muchwhen my msn was working again it was after xmas and i started liking this other at work when (i was a temporary worker) and when my mates ex and i were talking i thought that she knew i was over her and i asked for her advice about this other girl and she said that i shouldn't go for it so i didn't cause she had a bfnow recently i tried talking to her but she was ignoring me but i don't think she was cause when we talked the other day on facebook she didn't say anything but now all of my feelings from before are now back and everytime we speak it seems awkward and i just want to know what should i do to make it not awkward and for us to be close like we were before? and should i ask her out?
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reader, Entirely Unique +, writes (20 March 2010):
 I think theres alot of you telling her your feelings but from what you've said there isn't anything in what you said about what she feels towards you, have you asked her?
I do feel your feelings have been conflicting and probably have come across like that towards her too, talk to her, be honest about what you're feeling, maybe she's feeling this awkward feeling between you both and wants things to be back to the way they were, maybe she's confused on your feelings as you've told her you like her and then down the line you've asked her advice on another girl, that can be confusing to her and maybe she doesn't know where she stands or the situation on your feelings.
You seem to have had a good friendship going, if nothing else talking might help get that side of things back on track.
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