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writes:Please help, I'm fine with my boyfriends penis size but he isn't at all. I'm not sure the exact size but i think its like 4 inches. He wants to take meds to make it grow. I know there dangerous and i don't want him to take them but he's the type of person that once he has his mind set on some thing it's really hard to change. What can i say so he doesn't get or take them? I'm thinking about saying i wont have sex with him if he does but I'm not sure if that's right. Thank you
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reader, Max Jetwiler +, writes (13 August 2012):
wow,I just want to say how awesome it is that you are fine with his 4 inch penis. What you need to understand is that men tend to be very obsess with their penis size, much more than woman. I don't think there is much you can do, but by not offering him sex, I think, is not the best approach. Personally, I think you should complement him on how good he is in bed and how you love him so much after sex.
Eventually, he will figure out that these pills are not working, and soon he has to stop. My thing is, stop trying to enlarge your penis, which is highly unlikely, but become a better lover, which can be done so many ways, not just through penetration.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2011): Tell him this true story, and show him all this, including what you wrote.
I'm a guy with an average sized penis, my spouse has had sex with men who have penises that are twice the size of mine before she met me, and has around a hundred times as many sexual partners as I have had (abuse and neglect history really screwed up her life before she met me).
I'm the only one who has ever given her an orgasm.
What does she like? Orgasms.
What matters? Orgasms.
"No penis, no problem, give me an orgasm."
Some women are fixated on large penises, but good lovers (women as well as men) are focused on pleasure and that is from a lot that has nothing to do with a penis.
My favorite quote from a woman.
"Forget the penis, give me an orgasm any day."
Also, tell him to stop watching porn, you don't compare him to porn stars and you don't want to be compared to them either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2011): Oh my this is a worry isn't it. Umm.I think frankly you should say that you are so concerned that he is no some weird dumb journey that you sought advice on line and show him these posts.Failing that, if he is silly enough to throw his potential health and life away on vanity rather than focusing on other aspects of his manhood, there is little you can do.But do try at least until you have a clear answer.Bearing in mind that these pills are probably not safe, they probably do not work and could indeed make things worse. Ask him to consider that he has exagerated his sense of low self worth and connected that to the size of his ...which is very unhealthy. A good analogy is a woman with medium size legs which are very pleasing to look at and function well, this woman wants to lengthen her legs with surgery.But in doing so could die and also she will lose her individual sexy qualities that are all her own.Although she will have longer legs, the legs will not work as well as they used to and she will always feel uncomfortable and out of balance.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (10 June 2011):
 Hmmm, well, you can tell him that a wise old man advises that he will end up being very disappointed and quite a bit lighter in the wallet. However, I doubt he will heed such wisdom and will still believe that some pills can and will effectively alter his physical parts.
Therefore, tell him that if he signs and sends me a blank check on his bank account, I'll forward some aspirin pills that will make him much more handsome, some tree leaves to make him grow taller and, if his funds are enough, I'll toss in a map to help him find a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow. Some chemicals, such as sidenaifil citrate (Viagra, e.g.) may facilitate or extend erections, but all else is "snake oil" being sold to gullible people.
Better advice: Do the best you can with what you've got.
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