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writes:Hi i am a 16 yo male. i have a strong interest in older woman. Dont get me wrong i still like girls my own age but not as much. Is there anything i can do to change this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2010): I liked them older (23 or so) when I was your age. They had so much experience, in my view. Later in life, I still liked them at 23, and they just happened to be younger than me at that time. No worries, it's just a phase.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): Hi. It might be that you are a little shy and find older women slightly more attractive because of their confidence. Lots of teenage boys have crushes on older women. Its quite common. My boyfriend had massive crushes on one of his school teachers and Wonder Woman. They were both way older than him. But he fancied them like mad. So dont try and force yourself to change. Just go with the flow and when you meet the right girl you wont care what age she is.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 November 2010):
You can't. I like older women too. My girlfriend is older than me. The reason I like older women is that I prefer their maturity, which younger women don't have in the same way. If I were you, I wouldn't try to change. I'd just be the best guy you can, I'd be open to meeting women who are your age and older, and eventually you'll meet the right girl. There's nothing wrong with liking older women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): I'm afraid there is nothing you really can do, we can't control who we are attracted to! All you can do is avoid older women you find sexy and try not to see then etc and just hang around with girls around your own age.
Hope this helps
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