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How can I start up conversation with a shy guy I like at school?

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Question - (7 September 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid there is this boy I like at school but he's really shy and sticks to himself alot, and I talked to him and we seemed to get along but then he totally blanked me! I don't know how to start up a conversation again.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007):

if i were you, id bring up a subject i know he is interested in, perhaps a good score on a test that you can congratulate him on.

If you show your interest, he may open up.

It takes patience, and it may take a while for him to trust you.

On the other hand, dont seem too keen, as it might scare him off (not because you aren't a lovely person but because he is easily intimidated!)

Just be yourself, and have the confidence to turn the tables and approach him, dont expect him to come to you.

I waited two years for my shy boy, but, that was five years ago, and we are still together. I am 17. Good things come to those who wait. Be patient and good luck!

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (7 September 2007):

Smile at him and ask him a question.

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A female reader, stawberry01 United Kingdom +, writes (7 September 2007):

stawberry01 agony aunthi

Yeh hun you should start o conversation again as he is shy you will have to take the first step and talk to him.

xx

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