A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Dear Cupid there is this boy I like at school but he's really shy and sticks to himself alot, and I talked to him and we seemed to get along but then he totally blanked me! I don't know how to start up a conversation again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): if i were you, id bring up a subject i know he is interested in, perhaps a good score on a test that you can congratulate him on.
If you show your interest, he may open up.
It takes patience, and it may take a while for him to trust you.
On the other hand, dont seem too keen, as it might scare him off (not because you aren't a lovely person but because he is easily intimidated!)
Just be yourself, and have the confidence to turn the tables and approach him, dont expect him to come to you.
I waited two years for my shy boy, but, that was five years ago, and we are still together. I am 17. Good things come to those who wait. Be patient and good luck!
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male
reader, Tommy7 +, writes (7 September 2007):
Smile at him and ask him a question.
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female
reader, stawberry01 +, writes (7 September 2007):
hi
Yeh hun you should start o conversation again as he is shy you will have to take the first step and talk to him.
xx
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