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51-59,
*nowhtie
writes:How can I start to rebuild a relationship if I don't trust my husband, we do not talk, we are completely opposite including our views and I feel unloved, unappreciated, unattractive to him and just found out that 6 months ago he had an online relationship with another woman? Been together for 20+ years. He was 14 and I was 12 -- he is now 36 and I am going to be 34. We have 3 kids and 2 grandkids.
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reader, lisa21  +, writes (7 September 2007):
you are not the reason he cheated on you, it's probably more to do with the fact that you aren't communicating, however that is no excuse for doing that to you, he has a voice the same as you, i wonder how he'd feel if you'd had an affair?you don't need to change in anyway, he fell in love with you for who you were, if you want to try and make things work you must sit down and talk about what you can both do to save this mariage, if you find it hard write him a letter and then sit down and discuss what you wrote, it needs to be a two way thing if it is going to work, but in my opinion if he really loved you he would never have cheated.if theres no trust theres no future.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (6 September 2007):
You already have a relationship. All you can do is be observant and find out if you can "trust" him. Try to do more to gain his love, appreciation and be as attractive as you can.
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